Archive for December, 2007

I am amused

Since we filed, I decided that I would answer the phone calls coming in from our credit cards due to our missed payments, so I can give them our filing information faster than if I had to wait for them to received the official notice.  Once they know, they are required by law to stop calling.

Two things strike me as funny:

1.  I know they do automated dialing but do they really think that when people answer these calls, they are going to sit and wait on hold for “An important message from X credit card”?

2.  I answered a call from one, which was completely automated:

 Press 1 to verify who I am. 

Enter my last four digits of my Social Security number.

Press 1 to make a payment

Press 2 to make payment arrangements

Press 3 to say that a payment has been sent

Press 0 for an credit advisor

I follow the instructions and press 0 to pass on our information.  The automated voice says please hold.  I hold for less than 10 seconds.  A new voice then responds “We’re sorry.  Our office is now closed.  Please call back during our regular business hours.”

Gotta love it :-P

Filing

Today we officially are filing for bankruptcy.  All I have to do is drop off our certified check to the lawyer’s office for his fees and they will electronically file the documents today.

Our credit will take a hit but the end is in sight.

Merry Christmas :)

May the peace of God and the joy of Christmas be with you!

Merry Christmas !

Prayer Requests

I have a few prayer requests today….

First is the family of Ellie, she lost her battle last night with neuroblastoma after a hard fight.  I’ve been reading Ellie’s blog feed for a while after someone posted her site on the Bethany forums asking for prayers.  Please pray for her family: Mom-Sarah, Dad-John and 5-year-old Ethan along with all those who have been touched by Ellie’s life.  I can only imagine how bittersweet Christmas will seem with the joy of Christ’s birth juxtaposed against their loss.

 Second is Judy, fellow adoptive mom blogger.  Judy just learned today that she has breast cancer, localized but advanced.  Please pray for her and her family (husband Frank and son Nate).  I am constantly amazed by her strength and support :) 

And last, is actually a family local to me as they go to our church (I only recently discovered they had a blog), Kristi.  Kristi has been battling ovarian cancer since January and went through surgery yesterday to reverse a colostomy.  She and her family are hoping she’ll be home for Christmas with their 3 children (Ashley, Nathan & Emily) but she is having some minor complications- elevated heart rate, low blood pressure and oxygen level. 

Story in our local news

This is an amazing story I just ran across on our local news website

Son finds birth mom as co-worker

Posted: Dec 18, 2007 05:34 PM EST

Updated: Dec 18, 2007 06:31 PM EST

By DEE MORRISON

GRAND RAPIDS — Steve Flaig works with his mom. That’s not all that unusual. But Steve was adopted as a baby, and never knew his birth mom.

Until he started working with her.

Flaig had been searching online for his birth mother for four years and found nothing. Then he realized he was misspelling her last name. He fixed that and got the home address of a woman in Grand Rapids.

“I thought that’s really close to Lowe’s, where I work,” he told 24 Hour News 8, “and I bet I’ve seen her in this store, not realizing to what extent I’d seen her in the store.”

When he told a co-worker how the correct spelling of his birth mom’s last name - Tallady - led him to an address in the city, his co-worker asked him a question.

“She said, ‘Do you mean like the Chris Tallady who’s here, the head cashier up front?’”

A Lowe’s manager looked up Christine Tallady’s home address, and it matched. He had found his mother, but didn’t know what to say. So he waited.

“Just seeing her at work and thinking, that’s my mom,” he said, “this is very strange.”

Last week, an adoption agency worker agreed to break the news to Tallady, but explained only that a co-worker named Steve was the son she had given up for adoption 22 years ago.

But there are several Steves at the Plainfield Avenue Lowe’s.

She asked the manager to check the files because, she said, “I just knew it was Steve Flaig. It just had to be.” She gave the manager her son’s birthdate, “and she said, ‘He’s your son.’ And I just, Oh My God!”

For eight months, the cashier and the delivery guy had worked together, joked around, never suspecting they were mother and son. Now they’re easing from co-workers into family members.

“He’s a good person,” Tallady said. “That’s what I was hoping for, that he’d turn out to be a good person.”

They like what they see in each other and in their future. “I want to meet his mom and dad,” she said, “because they did such a good job. He’s such a good guy.”

Tallady had two more children, and has seven brothers and sisters. So Steve has a half-brother and half-sister, aunts, uncles and cousins to meet and get to know.

There is suddenly a much bigger family to celebrate Christmas with this year, and they plan to celebrate together.

Widget’s Christmas Wish List

So I asked Widget what she wanted for Christmas.  She informed me she wanted:

A skateboard

An itty bitty car to drive really fast -I think she means the power wheels Corvette we saw at Toys R Us when we were there for her birthday

Something she can slide on her belly on - she demonstrated this by sliding across the couch on her stomach :D

A soccer ball

A hockey stick

And she wants to make a baby using glue for Christmas for Santa!

Christmas Card Pictures

I tried to get Widget to cooperate for Christmas card pictures today.

Let’s just say most were not so good.

Examples:

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I took a week off

from blogging, that is.

Of course, now I have the lovely first cold/flu of the winter, thanks to my DH!

And all I want to do is lay my poor sniffling, sneezing, achy self on the couch and not move.

T’s work Christmas party is tomorrow night in Traverse City about 3 hours north of here.  We couldn’t get an overnight sitter for Widget, so I wasn’t going to go anyway.  Now maybe I can play the “I’m sick” card and T won’t go either :P  It didn’t sound like he wanted to haul himself all the way there and then back home late since we don’t have money for him to stay in a hotel.  If we were both going, we could stay at my grandparents’ because they live fairly near there, but I won’t subject T to them on his own!  Nor are they up to watching Widget for a short period of time. 

The only reason I wanted to go was because it would give us a chance to spend some time together without our dearest child or other people.  We don’t do that enough.  Most of the time we spend without her, we are out with friends- not just ourselves.  Oh, well.  Something to think about for the future.

And now, I’m off to the couch!


About Me

I'm Erin since May 1977

Wife to T since June 14, 1997

Mommy to Widget since November 2004

Widget joined our family through a domestic open adoption. We have a fully open adoption with her maternal first family, seeing them 3-4 times per year.

About this blog

A place for me to ramble about my life as a Christian mom, wife, ethical adoption advocate, childhood cancer survivor, depression fighter.

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